I'm sharing this story to motivate you to never give up on your dream to play. It does take time, patience, and focus. My guitar playing journey has had its high moments and low moments but ultimately I have had the time of my life playing guitar. During my high school years I would practically sleep with my guitar. Even though it didn't help me play any better, I still stayed up late at night trying to perfect my craft. I would hear the chords and notes in almost every song I heard on the radio. Luck for me I was going to a church that encouraged me to play. Even though I didn't start out wanting to learn "worship" songs, I found that these songs were easy to play and sing along with. This gave me a great edge to my skill. It marked a fundamental stage in my life and my guitar playing journey.

Recently, I coined this phrase, "Scaling Your Way To Success". I started looking back at all the original scales for beginners. With just a few glances at the charts and I was playing those same scales that posed such a challenge to me years ago. I thought about how I would release all my stress and worries through the guitar. Then my children came running in the room to see what I was doing. I knew that my guitar playing journey had played a key role in my life. All the people that I met along the way played a big role. One that I'll never forget was, Mitch Lanier, my guitar instructor. He spent a few saturday mornings showing me the basics. He had me playing my first song, "Knocking On Heaven's Door", in no time. With those three basic chords, I felt like a "rock god"!
Success is a funny thing. The first definition of success is the accomplishment of an aim or purpose. Don't think that you have to be rich, famous, or popular to be successful. Playing guitar is fun and can be learned. It is a great goal to set. I tell my clients to take notes in a note book. They are, in away, journalling their guitar playing. I wish I had kept a journal note book for my journey. It is a way for you to see your success in progress. Here is a few things to consider in scaling your way to success.
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"Creating Your Personal Life Plan" |
- Have A Vision- One of the first things I ask clients is, "why do you want to learn how to play guitar?". I haven't had a client tell me that they want to be a guitar legend but I'm open for that. You need to know what you want to do. If you never discover that, you will waste a lot of time and money on bogus activities and toys. A great way to start is by creating a list of things that you want to do and or places you want to go. Also picture what kind of life you want to live. Think about the future and the plans of those in your life, like family and close friends. This will get you started.
- Have A Plan- Knowing what you want is only part of your success. Talk to people about your vision. Investigate how others have found success in areas of your vision. Read books that will help you build a plan. At the bottom of this blog, I'll list a link to a free E-Book written by Michael Hyatt called "Creating Your Personal Life Plan". Simply sign up for his free newsletter and get the e-book free.
- Have A Mentor- Surround your self with people who are on the same journey as you or people that can truly offer great advice to help you on your journey. Try to distant your self from people who are negative about your journey you have chosen. If it is truly what you are divinely inspired to do then go for it. Find a local instructor or mentor. Don't just depend on the videos and books. Nothing beats face to face advice and instruction. Get involved with local community groups and churches that share a common goal with you.
- Have A Blast- My only rule with my clients is that we have fun playing and learning guitar. Everything you do in life to achieve your goals may not be fun but know that it is necessary in reaching your divine purpose. If it isn't necessary, question it. If you can , as a rule, make what every you are doing to achieve your goals fun! You may have some detours on your journey but that is what makes it a journey and not a destination. Let difficult times and situations sharpen you like a sword! A dull sword may look good on the wall but if you every have to use it for battle, you are dead.
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"Creating Your Personal Life Plan" by Michael Hyatt